"Why does this always happen to me!!?!"

Lots of people have many relationships that end up going down the same sort of pathway to a similar destination where the relationship eventually fails and comes to an end.

 

Lots of people have relationships that fall into the cycle of their previous relationships and eventually they end.

 

Lots of people date an individual who has pretty much the same characteristics as their ex.  And when that relationship ends, the next person they date also has the same characteristics as their previous partners. Your relationships seem like a never ending cycle of failure.

 

Lots of people become frustrated because they can't find the right relationship for them or they can't figure out how to create a change in how their relationships end up.

 

These cycles and patterns are destructive to relationships and stop you from forming your perfect relationship. The question is how do you break these patterns and cycles to ensure you can create and maintain your ideal relationship.

What people don’t realise is that in relationships we attract to us individuals who have lots of the same emotions. Attraction is magnetic and you draw to you people and events so you can actualise the emotions you have stored within you. Any negative emotion in your body will attract other negative emotions.  If you have one negative emotion it attracts all around it other negative emotions.  Emotions are magnetic.

 

 

The magnetic effect of emotions isn’t just relevant to negative emotions, it also applies to positive emotions. If you have a bunch of positive emotions they are going to attract more positive emotions, more positive people to you.

Ok, so what do we mean by negative emotions? These could be conscious or out of your awareness and include anger, sadness, fear, hurt & guilt. Also there may be conscious or unconscious programs or strategies that you run ( often very much out of our own awareness). As well as fixations you have, limiting decisions that you’ve made or false identifications. With this type of negativity running at the conscious or most likely, the unconscious level, you will attract more of it to you. And that’s the problem the more repressed and denied the emotion, the more likely you are to attract it to you in the form of a partnership or an event. If there are things that you absolutely do not want to face or to deal with, or something that is highly unconscious to you, something that you really are unwilling to contemplate. That’s the very thing that you will attract and you will manifest for yourself.

 

The more repressed and denied something is, the more out of your consciousness it is then the more magnetic it becomes. And that’s a problem. Because you unconsciously draw people and situations to you and then you say “Why does this always happen to me?”

 

What causes this to happen then? People are busy pointing the finger at other people, blaming the outside world for anything and everything. Their focus is on what’s happening externally while what they should be doing is focusing on what’s happening INSIDE OF SELF. The Universe has elaborately constructed the magnetic emotional plain within humans with an unspoken law that states,  “because you are busy looking outside of yourself, your  emotional body will be magnetic so that you attract to you the stuff on the inside that you are unwilling to admit is you!”

 

People look outside of themselves and they say, “that’s not me” or “I can’t stand people like that,” or  “I could never do that!” However, the truth is that to the extent that you repress it, it becomes magnetic and you attract it to yourself. This is especially true when it comes to relationships because of the essential polarity between man and woman. 

So whatever it is that you like in the other person, IS YOU and whatever it is that you don’t like in the person you are with, IS YOU also.

 

 

If you want to 

 

• Attract the Right Love Relationship for you

• Eliminate the fears and blocks to a fulfilling relationship

• Eliminate the anxiety in relationships once and for all

• Eliminate the fear of trusting again, opening up, not being good enough, fear of rejection, loss, being hurt. Have all of that gone forever

• Re-design yourself as the perfect person for the kind of relationship that you really want

• Find out how to be yourself in a relationship

• Still be safe when you let go of the old defence mechanism

• Create a real bond, trust, respect and commitment

• Learn to love yourself so you can experience it from your relationship

• Discover how to love and be loved

• Put energy, passion and zest back in your relationship

• Discover what it means to meet your soul mate!